Your Wedding, Your Way. Quietly.
Gentle, heartfelt ceremonies for private couples who want to celebrate their love without the pressure, the performance, or the fuss.
When You’re Ready, Let’s Connect, In Your Own Way
Send a Quiet Message
To get started, you can send a message through the contact form, use the green WhatsApp icon, or we can arrange a brief video call. The choice is entirely yours. This is a chance for you to ask questions, share your initial thoughts, and see if I'm the right person to support you.
You won't be put on the spot.
You won't face a sales pitch.
It's simply a warm, easy first step.
Or... Take Your Time and Explore
If you're not ready to reach out, that's perfectly okay. The best way to get a feel for my approach is to see it through the eyes of others. Take a quiet moment to browse stories and testimonials from couples who, like you, wanted something different. Or get some ideas and tips from the Wildly Wed Newsletter
Just a quiet space to explore.
No pressure to commit.
Just heartfelt stories to inspire you.
It all begins with your story
The first step is simply a relaxed, unhurried conversation. It's a comfortable space dedicated entirely to you, where you can share your story and your hopes for the ceremony, with no pressure or expectation.
Maybe you feel your wedding should be a quiet, personal moment. A ceremony that's all about your connection—free from any pressure, performance, or anything that doesn't feel completely like the two of you. If you're nodding along, you're in the right place.
I specialise in holding space for couples who want something simple, meaningful, and deeply personal. Together, we’ll craft a ceremony at a pace and in a style that feels comfortable and honest, ensuring the moment you say "I do" is joyful and fells like you.
A Heartfelt Collboration
As your celebrant, my first step is always to listen. I'll provide a simple, clear structure for your ceremony, while making plenty of space for your own personal touches. Together, we'll create a moment that is beautifully crafted and feels completely, honestly you.
Your Special Moment
The result is a ceremony delivered with warmth and calm—a moment of quiet beauty, focused entirely on your commitment, that you will cherish forever.
A Note on Legal Simplicity
A simple, reassuring note, especially for our couples from England: in Scotland, your ceremony is your legal marriage.
As an authorised celebrant, I can conduct a fully legal ceremony for you almost anywhere you choose. This means no separate trips to a registry office—just one simple, heartfelt ceremony in the place that feels truly yours.
How it works
I believe the process of creating your ceremony should be as calm and heartfelt as the day itself. This is what you can expect from the experience.
What a Gentle Ceremony Feels Like
"Our wedding ceremony was very small and intimate... We wanted a simple, relaxed ceremony in a woodland that means a lot to our family and Monika really helped to create the right atmosphere for that."
– Bex & Ali